Frustration is a driving force for success

Frustration is a driving force for success One faces in life many problems and obstacles between him and the achievement of its objectives, and vary the degree and severity of these obstacles even up intensity that affects one's State of frustration and despair make it succumbs to these constraints and believed that salvation which And if he wants to change the status of human and development and strive to perfect it inevitably will face considerable constraints, many first and most constraints is the same, the biggest obstacles are emitted from. Therefore, we find the Quran attributes and shortcomings of the human soul "they give a banquet to grips with misfortune has something I stated this doubled tell is when you yourself" calamities and mostly arises from errors, construction and demolition process first start from the inside of the self "God does not change the condition of a people until they change themselves" and often the case that the external influence does not have a significant impact unless there is inside. And when you realize that the basis of adverse change and positively change the internal and external factors are not essential in the change, the first concern is for the home, whether for the individual or the nation as a whole in an interview. This course is essential for those who want to overcome many failures and eliminates frustration turning to itself it troubleshooting and refined and straightened. Whoever wants to change the situation and raise them in perfect peace he must settle the same on the face of the difficulties, and to know that the road will not be easy without the turbidities, growing pains, and who wants change without facing problems the way he did not know the truth of life and the nature of the shift and promotion. And if the suffering of change, it has been accompanied by negative change is the frustration that may infect the human suffering; and the fact that a human could make frustrations driving force for achievement and goals and aspirations, transforming frustration to a positive event. If we look at the positive thing is we will be able to solve the problems and overcome the situation faster and easier than those who only see negatives and stand when frustrations. There is a difference between being a victim or a Victor. If you look at the frustration that grant and gift you will be able to overcome this frustration and improve your life and achieving your dreams. The first interaction with any obstacle might constitute some sort of frustration or send ideas destroyed does not produce us a positive act. So we have to change our view of the situation and deal with the frustration that was found in the following image. First: the frustration shows you need to take a step back. Many people employed by partial and side events on the overall objective of the major goal sought, therefore, to stand slightly away from the event to look at the picture. Took the time to reaffirm the basic goal and see you still going in the right direction. This contemplative stop may discover where you may trod a path did not notify your thoughts you may take someday. II: obstacles given the wonderful opportunity to brainstorm Sometimes when we put the plans, we immediately think of the solution and turn without sufficient study of the possible options. And when discouraged you tend to brainstorming, and is studying all possible options and solutions so you may discover more effective ways with little effort and thought. III: frustrated mark you need for comfort Some people when they encounter obstacles in the road, they amplify these obstacles and give more than worth the time and effort, which can cause psychological pressure prevents him from realizing the solution. Giving oneself a period of rest is essential, stress has portrayed it to non-reality which human can't discover the solution. It was a strong effort and hard work to achieve our goals or projects however we find failure, sometimes glued to something we can't even see pursuant to others, I wonder why? This particular point will make many people give up and leave their which commenced, therefore giving oneself a break is necessary. IV: frustrated opportunity for success If you look at the frustrations facing as opportunities and experiences gained, you will continue in meserak and overcome obstacles and problems they encounter. There is no absolute failure; but with failure there experiences and information obtained, Ghalib evil implies something good, we just need to learn how to deal with frustration. Our and our very important in that it has been said: "the pessimist sees obstacles at every opportunity and every opportunity optimist sees an obstacle" to see your carefully you'll find at least something is true, and that's great, then ask yourself: How do you develop that success? In your question, you removed yourself from the negative situation frustrating promised to focus on the positive situation, and thus overcome problems faced by Allaah's leave. Cause frustration sometimes is our stay to be one and the lack of change, and we think that is our destiny, we must accept this fact and live with him, and this in effect robbed of human capacities, human, if bad it must change this situation it will not lose the case. And life is a place of opportunity and will not impair the opportunities to seek and search for these opportunities. Conclusion: If you know that the status quo is impossible, experiencing moments of frustration it will not last, as the anguish and distress near vulva as Allah says: "even if astiaes the Apostles thought they had lied: victory, the NGE of starch and our might is not about people"